“What you resists persists” ~Carl Jung
When the law of attraction got introduced on a larger scale through the book/dvd The Secret I think the anxiety level of many people went up on a larger scale too.
There is a term called – unconscious competent – and I believe for many years many of us weren’t aware of what we were creating – and there wasn’t that much pressure to know. Things happened naturally and sometimes they didn’t – but the pressure of “You Create Your Own Reality” wasn’t there.
I believe we could all utilize less of – You Create Your Own Reality – and more of – You Allow Your Reality.
When The Secret came out, you most likely knew the concepts and knew when you thought about something – it did often come about. You may have created a vision board – and cut pictures out of magazines *telling* the Universe what you wanted.
I did the same. I’d write in my journal about what I *thought* I wanted and some things would manifest and some things wouldn’t.
When things didn’t manifest, I see now that it all had to do with my resistance level to allowing and trusting that if it wasn’t right, the Universe didn’t want me to have it right then. Or, there was something in my story – the story I made up about how my past circumstances defined who I am and based on that, I’m not worthy.
Regardless, I’d often resist it and fight harder for what I *thought* I wanted and the more I resisted, the more what I didn’t want would appear. Which left me feeling even more frustrated and believing a) the law of attraction just didn’t work for me – and/or b) I’m unconsciously reinforcing my story that I’m not enough in some way or c) all of the above :)
What I’m learning is – Acceptance is the key. Accepting everything that comes your way and knowing that whatever comes, it is for your highest good. This puts you in the flow of life vs. putting you in the resistance to life.
As I practice this, my mind has been having a field day with resistance – screaming at me: “What do you mean accept what comes and what is? How in the world will the Universe ever know what you truly want if you’re so passive?” Essentially saying, you need control and you need control now!
Yet, the Truth is – my mind doesn’t know what life has in store for me – it only knows the story it created around what I’m worthy of and what I’m not based on what I’ve already experienced. This story is very limiting – and it may lead me to my mind’s fate, but it won’t lead me to my destiny.
My prayer moving forward is to be pulled towards my destiny – and to allow that to unfold through being accepting of what is and what comes. This doesn’t mean that I passively just walk through life not wanting things – I still have desires – but rather than consult my mind on what those desires are, I’m deciding to go deeper into my soul and allow my soul to speak to me and to WILL it to happen vs. try to make it happen.
We’ll talk more about WILL next time – meanwhile, if this approach resonates, give it a try. Accept what is – and know that what is – IS for your highest good. Trust it.
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