We all have a story we tell ourselves about how worthy or unworthy we feel based on past and current circumstances.
And, most everyone looks to create something in the future to transcend the circumstances that made you (or are making you) feel unworthy…and….hold onto the circumstances that you feel give you worth.
But have you ever considered that trying to create your life keeps you stuck in what you *think* you *should* do and have vs. allowing what is meant for you to happen?
The past two years have opened my own eyes to how mind driven I’ve been. How, even though, I’ve been following spiritual practice and “teachers”, I was still more committed to giving my mind the power and trying to control what happens vs. allowing what is meant to happen, happen.
What I’m continuing to realize is: my mind doesn’t have the insight and Truth that my soul does. In Truth, my mind doesn’t know my destiny. My mind only knows my fate based on the story I tell myself about myself and my current & past life circumstances.
Have you ever considered that you tell yourself a story about your own worth without realizing that you’re the one telling the story, not life?
I used to *think* (a.k.a. tell myself) that I just had bad luck in certain areas of my life – and that the reason things weren’t changing or manifesting in the direction I wanted them to go was because…and then insert whatever story line here that my mind told me about my circumstances. I used to *think* life was working against me, not for me.
But then, I realized that I have a story teller that is focused on creating meaning and significance with events that I took to mean this or that about me and my worthiness. If this happened it meant this. Or if that happened it must mean this.
I hadn’t considered that I could just let an event or circumstance happen and BE without putting a judgement on it….
We’re taught that the outer world is a direct reflection of our worthiness and if we don’t have everything that others do – then, well, it must mean they are more deserving or whatever the story is that you may tell yourself.
But the Truth is – the mind/ego is solely focused on comparison and it’s favorite thing to do is measure your worth in comparison with someone else’s. This only causes suffering and keeps you stuck in that same limiting story. And, your worth can never be measured. Ever.
What if, in order to allow your destiny, you decide that you’ll become aware of the story you tell yourself about yourself (and others and life, etc.) and not buy into it – simply witness it as a story – as just words. Can you imagine the freedom that would create in your life? Can you imagine the unlimited possibilities?
Your story keeps you stuck.
If you’re ready to ditch that story – rather than tell yourself a new one about how worthy you really are, make a choice to just let what is BE…no judgement. Just let it be without telling yourself that it *means* something about you.
This approach is true for “good” circumstances as much as it is for “bad” circumstances because no matter what, the other shoe will drop. We live in a duality world – where polarity rules the day. One day it rains – another day the sun is out.
Have you ever questioned mother nature about what the weather means? Or, even said to mother nature, don’t rain today. No, because you know you aren’t in control of mother nature. And, you being part of nature, what if you aren’t in control of your destiny either? What if, the greatest vision you could you ever experience for your life was in the not knowing vs. the knowing? What if being NOW and accepting what comes IS your purpose?
Lots to contemplate! And much more to come in future articles on this approach to life.